One of the rules that I have in my head about communication and the relationships that I have in my life; I tried to think to myself, if this person leaves my life right now would we have had all of the conversations that we needed to have.
Would we have apologized for the things that we needed to apologize for?
Would we have said. "I love you"?
Would we have agreed to disagree?
Would we be in a space where I was allowed grace to be a flawed human beings and vice-versa.
Because we spend a lot of time waiting for the other person to cross the line and say something to us, right.
Because you're like I didn't do it.
But at the end of the day when you love somebody, you crossed the line.
Now I'm not saying that you need to be violated or that you need to have your boundaries violated.
I'm not saying that at all. But, I am saying that sometimes; some of the grudges that we hold on to; some of the anger that we hold on to and some of that negative energy that we hold on to, only hurts us because when you are the one left here on Earth because your clock is still ticking do you really want to think back on that time when you should woulda coulda? Or, do you want to think back on that time, when you did something about it?
Just a thought.
Loveli xoxo